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Living Today
Using Insights from the Life of
St. Francis of Assisi
God Owns It All!
The
earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world,
and all who live in it (Psalm 24:1).
Part of St. Francis of Assisi’s notion of poverty was
that he owned nothing because God owned it all. God
created the heavens and the earth and all that dwell in
it. We are the caretakers; we are stewards of God’s
creation. As St. Francis gave up all his earthly
possessions at the foot of the Bishop of Assisi (during
his confrontation with his father), he witnessed to all
as to what it means to be a steward-disciple or a
grateful caretaker. When the U.S. Bishops wrote their
Pastoral Letter, Stewardship: A Disciple’s Response,
they certainly might have had St. Francis of Assisi
personally in mind when they chose the words:
Who is a Christian disciple?
One who responds to Christ’s call, follows Jesus,
and shapes his or her life in imitation of Christ’s.
Who is a Christian steward? One who receives God’s
gifts gratefully, cherishes and tends them in a
responsible and accountable manner, shares them in
justice and love with others, and returns them with
increase to the Lord. Let us begin with being a
disciple—a follower of our Lord Jesus Christ. As
members of the Church, Jesus calls us to be
disciples. This has astonishing implications: Mature
disciples make a conscious decision to follow Jesus,
no matter what the cost. Christian disciples
experience conversion—life shaping changes of mind
and heart—and commit their very selves to the Lord.
Christian stewards respond in a particular way to
the call to be a disciple. Stewardship has the power
to shape and mold our understanding of our lives and
the way in which we live.
Isn’t the similarity remarkable with the life of St.
Francis! St. Francis was indeed a great steward and that
should not come as a surprise to us because stewardship
is the natural response of a committed disciple (hence,
the title of the pastoral letter:
Stewardship: A
Disciple’s Response). After all, that is essentially
what all the saints were, great models of stewardship.
They each felt called by God to use all the gifts,
talents, and skills they had to serve God and neighbor.
They did not keep the gifts they had for themselves;
rather, out of tremendous love and gratitude they shared
their gifts of time, talent and treasure for the work of
God and the Church. They gave their very lives for
others, just as Jesus gave His life for us on the cross.
They never counted the cost. They just kept giving and
yet the well never ran dry. Any “normal person” would be
deeply afraid to give and keep giving so generously, but
history is our witness that God continued to give these
holy men and women everything they needed to fulfill
their callings. As scripture says, "God has called you,
He will not fail you" (1 Thes). We must together learn
to trust in God's love and protection just as the saints
did. In a certain way, the saints were not poorer when
they gave so generously of themselves and their
possessions, but richer and more joyous, since it is not
material things that bring us happiness, but an ever
closer relationship with God.
Steward-disciples recognize God as the origin of life,
the giver of freedom and the source of all they have and
all they are. They see themselves as caretakers of God’s
many gifts. They are grateful for what they have
received and are eager to cultivate their gifts out of
love for God and one another. Like St. Francis, it is
important that we recognize that God owns it all and we
are the joyful caretakers of everything around us.
St. Francis of Assisi, as patron saint of the
environment (one of the many things he’s been named
patron of), is often associated with taking care of all
God’s creatures. As we recognize that God owns it all,
the imagery of a garden comes to mind. Bishop Robert
Morneau of Green Bay speaks of caretaking for the
gardens in our life. These gardens consist of 12 aspects
(or plots) of stewardship to be applied in every area of
our lives. Adapted from the stewardship curriculum of
the Catholic Schools of the Archdiocese of Seattle,
we
offer some ideas associated with these twelve gardens of
stewardship for your reflection:
The Stewardship
Garden of the Body
We need proper rest, nutrition and
exercise. Our physical bodies are gifts from God and
temples of the Holy Spirit -- to be respected and cared
for.
For Adults:
Do you set a good example for nutrition and
physical activity? Home is the strongest influence for
young children. When adults make healthful choices,
everyone benefits!
For Children:
Do you sometimes choose to eat too much candy or junk
food? Choosing to eat more healthful food instead will
make you a better steward of the body that God gave you
and you’ll feel better, too!
Families Together:
Enjoy physical activity together. Talk about the good
and bad ways that different foods affect our bodies.
Consider also how we respect our bodies by dressing with
appropriate modesty.
The Stewardship
Garden of the Planet
What is the relationship I/we have,
want to have with the earth? We hear much in our secular
world about taking care of earth’s environment. But
being good stewards of the earth and God’s creatures on
it has always been humanity’s particular duty. God gave
us dominion over creation – the authority and the
responsibility to take good care of the physical world
that He gave us.
For Adults:
Talk to your kids about some of the ways
conditions of the environment have improved recently.
The air and water is cleaner in many places than they
were a generation ago. Some animals have come off the
endangered species list. It’s important for children to
realize that we can make a positive difference in the
garden of creation.
For Children:
Take care of your neighborhood and school and remember
to not litter. You can make a project of going around
your neighborhood with a friend and picking up any trash
you see.
Families Together:
Take some time as a family to talk about
ways to be more ‘green’ in your home – such as using
cold water in the laundry, running only full loads in
the dryer and the dishwasher, turning the computer off
or placing it on standby when not being used, recycling
waste, etc.
The Stewardship
Garden of Decisions
How do I/we make decisions - unilaterally or
collaboratively? The opportunity to make decisions is a
gift from God and a great responsibility. This is our
gift of free will. The Old Testament shows a long
history of God’s faith community being called to make
decisions – to follow Him and His ways, or to neglect
God’s ways, choose their own ways and suffer the
consequences of those decisions. Similarly, we in the
modern world are also called to make decisions that
follow God and not those that turn us away from Him.
For Adults:
When you are at work or in the
neighborhood, do you collaborate with people, especially
if the decision will impact them? Share with the
children in your home the ways your faith and your
belief in God influences both large and mundane
decisions you make – such as choosing which television
shows or movies to watch, what purchases to make, how to
spend vacation time, how to respond to people in
difficult situations, etc.
For Children:
Can you think of any decisions you made today that are
pleasing to God? Did you decide to be kind to somebody
today, or to help somebody? When you make a choice,
every time you choose to do what you know God wants, you
are being a good steward of your decisions.
Families Together:
Do you use a process to make big
decisions as a family, such as praying together or
having a family discussion? Do you consult resources
such as Consumer Reports or the Church’s movie reviews?
Consider ways to make big decisions as a family.
The Stewardship
Garden of Emotional Life
Do I tend to my emotions and learn
from them? Our feelings and emotions are an integral
part of us as human beings. God calls us to deal with
our emotions in ways that focus on healthy, positive
thoughts and feelings, while avoiding the patterns of
thought and behavior that may disrupt our happiness and
well-being.
For Adults:
Talk to the children in your household
about ways you make an effort to keep your emotions
under control and to improve your outlook. They need to
know that control over our emotions doesn’t always come
easily, but that we have to stay aware and work
diligently to not allow our emotions to control our
actions.
For Children:
Say hello and give a smile to everyone you meet. It
helps you feel good and it helps others feel happy, too!
Families Together:
Laughing as a family is a great
way to boost happiness! Consider an evening routine of
sharing jokes or funny stories.
The Stewardship
Garden of Relationships
Give proper time and attention to
the relationships in your life. Being respectful to each
other and caring toward one another is an integral part
of our Christian faith. Jesus sums up the importance of
our relationships with others with His simple and
profound command that we “Do
unto others as we would have them do unto us.”
For Adults:
Do you model good relationships with your
friends, family members & neighbors? Avoiding gossip,
making time for family intimacy, resolving problems
through communication before they become difficult
issues; these are some ways that we can be good examples
to our children and witnesses of our faith.
For Children:
Everyone wants to be treated with respect. Can you think
of a way you’ve treated someone that was not kind or not
respectful? If so, God would want you to tell them you
feel sorry about how you treated them and that you want
to do better.
Families Together:
Plan ways to keep meaningful contact
with extended family members and close family friends
you don’t often see. Consider family discussions to work
out potential problems or legitimate disagreements. Even
when compromise is not appropriate, it’s beneficial if
all members of the family feel that their perspective is
being acknowledged.
The Stewardship
Garden of Citizenship
Do I make the time to be informed and take seriously my
responsibilities as a citizen? Citizenship relates to
how we strive to be good stewards of our communities --
both our religious faith communities as well as our
secular communities, such as local and national
governments. A community of good citizens helps enable
its people to live as God intends.
For Adults:
Talk to the children in your home about the
importance of voting. Let them see you reading the
voter’s pamphlet. If you go to community or parish
meetings, talk to them about being involved in the
community and, if appropriate, perhaps bring them to the
meetings with you.
For Children:
Make it a point to read news articles or listen to some
news on the radio or TV daily. Or ask your parents what
is happening in our country and the world. Staying aware
of current events is one of the best ways to prepare for
being an adult steward of your citizenship. How might
you volunteer in your church or neighborhood that would
make it a better place for others?
Families Together:
When it comes time to vote, let your
kids know why you choose to vote the way you do and ways
your decisions are influenced by your faith. As a
family, find a volunteer activity at the parish that you
can participate together and help carry out God’s work
through service to others.
The Stewardship
Gardens of Technology and the Mind
Am I, are we, using technology to serve life? Do I make
time to read, reflect and nurture my mind? We are
created in the image of God. Our minds are extraordinary
gifts that allow us to have fellowship with our Creator.
We know from scripture that God has called us to have a
spirit of ‘love, power and a sound mind.’ We should
always be learning, questioning, and thirsting for
knowledge, in both our spiritual and temporal worlds.
When used responsibly, technology can be very useful
toward this purpose.
For Adults:
Do you think of technology as a gift from
God, to use for learning and expanding your mind?
Consider your use of the internet, television, digital
cameras, modern transportation and communication and all
manner of machines. We have much to be grateful for with
the technologies of modern life. Consider ways you can
use technology to bless others and to help you live your
life according to the will of God.
For Children:
You can learn a lot from surfing the net or even
watching television and playing some video games. But
not everything on the internet, TV or video games is
good. Part of becoming mature is learning to recognize
the difference between using your time wisely and doing
things that are a waste of time, or even harmful. It’s
smarter to use technology in ways that do you good.
Rather than focusing only on entertainment, use your
mind for a variety of activities that require thinking.
Think of it as being the master of technology, instead
of technology being the master of you!
Families Together:
For younger children, explain the
benefits and dangers of technology when you set parental
controls. For older children, consider discussing your
reasoning for TV guidelines or internet controls and
listen to their input, as well. You may be surprised by
what you learn. If there is disagreement over a popular
TV show, consider watching a partial episode with them
in order to point out why it is objectionable. Regarding
films, helpful Catholic rating sources are available.
The Florida
Catholic newspaper and the USCCB
website are informative and useful in their reviews of
all types of films.
The Stewardship
Garden of History
Do I appreciate and learn from the gift of history and
tradition? God calls us to understand our past and to
use that knowledge for a better future. The history of
God’s people in scripture shows us the consequences of
disobeying God, as well as the rewards of living
according to His will. This history, along with all of
humanity’s known history, is meant to be used for our
benefit, as a guide.
For Adults:
Give your children an awareness of the past
through stories about their family and books about
historical figures. Reading the newspaper, listening to
the news on the TV or radio, or visiting news pages on
the internet is also a good way to set an example for
our children that we should pay attention to current
events and “history in the making.”
For Children:
Ask your parents or older relatives about things they
remember from when they were kids. You will be surprised
how interesting their stories are!
Families Together:
Visit a local history museum together. If your family
goes on a trip, take the time to learn some history of
the area before you leave. Knowing true stories of the
places you’ll see adds value to the experience, as well
as fun!
The Stewardship
Garden of the Arts
Do I appreciate and make time for the arts and culture?
Creativity is a gift from God and is manifest in every
form of art. Stewardship of the arts includes
recognizing that we have each been given a measure of
this gift, and are called to nurture and use our
creativity, as well as value the creativity of others.
For Adults:
Do you make art a regular part of your life?
Consider how you value the various forms of art; visual
arts, performance arts, etc. In what ways are your
children exposed to the arts? Recite a favorite poem to
your spouse.
For Children:
Choose a favorite painting, poem or
musical piece to share with your parents and tell them
why you like it and why it makes you happier.
Families Together:
Choose a time to go together to a
musical performance, the theater, an art museum or
gallery. (Free concerts are often available in the
Orlando area year-round, as well as occasional free
gallery evenings.) Discuss how experiencing the arts can
make us better appreciate God’s gifts of inspiration and
creativity.
The Stewardship
Garden of the Money
What is my relationship with money? What are my spending
patterns? A central insight of stewardship is that the
material ‘possessions’ we have are not really ours. They
belong to God, who has entrusted them to us so we can
nurture, tend, and share them. Even the money we earn
from our own hard work (and our God-given talents and
strengths) is a gift from God. Consider the ways God
want us to use these gifts.
For Adults:
Show your kids how you budget and how you
make decisions about what to save or spend your money
on. They need to know that good stewardship of money
requires deliberate and planned decisions. It’s
especially important for our children to see us plan
finances in the spirit that God & our faith has called
us to. Each November you are asked to make a decision as
to how much you plan to use your money to support the
work of the Church – God’s work during the next year. As
you consider this, remember that your gift should be
planned, proportionate and sacrificial.
For Children:
Do you want to help people who
don’t have a place to live or enough food to eat? If you
earn money or an allowance, you can choose to help
others by giving some of your money to a charity or
mission. The use of the youth stewardship envelopes each
week accomplishes this as you are helping the parish
help the poor and needy in our area.
Families Together:
Consider a system to help your kids keep
track of their money, such as separate jars or envelopes
marked for saving, spending, charity, and perhaps even
investing. This will help children to control their
money and to visualize making good decisions about their
finances.
The Stewardship
Garden of the Soul
Do I make time to tend to my spiritual life? As people
of faith, it’s important for us to take time to care for
our souls through prayer, worship, and actively
maintaining our relationship with God. Nurturing
ourselves by tending to our souls helps promote our
inner peace and ultimately be more effective in every
area of our lives.
For Adults:
Thank God and praise Him in the presence of your
children. Talk to them about your faith in God and let
them see you acknowledge His gifts and goodness. Talk to
them about your faith in God’s will when you’re
challenged with difficulties, as well.
For Children:
When you pray, concentrate on what
you are saying to God. It helps to close your eyes and
imagine God listening to you, caring very much about you
and being with you – because He is!
Families Together:
Having a prayer ‘plan’ makes it more
likely that the family will make time to pray together ���
in the car on the way to school, in the morning or
bedtime, during meals. What starts as a prayer plan will
eventually become a valuable family ritual.
After looking
these gardens over, one of the gardens I/we need to give
more time and attention to is
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